Talked to my old childhood friend and he shared: "Life kuch jyada hi hectic ho gayi hai". I could empathize with him for I know how tough & busy life the couple is living. Having a cute baby gal of 6 months (Wow! so sweet) combined with compulsion of reaching office by 10:00 am that too by travelling more than 1.5 hrs. make this recipe really difficult to cook. The lady has to leave her daughter with the crèche (though unwillingly) for most part of the day, while the Dad has to save his love & care for the weekend, as this is the only time he cud devote to his sweet lil princess (Sic.). 11:30 pm go to sleep, get started for office by 7:30, no time for friends, social functions (except office parties), festivals.
This all made me think: Do I want such life??
Though money can not buy everything & at the same time It's easy to cry in a Mercedes than in a hut with open roof but everybody has to make a choice. These are the two extremes shared by lunatics on fb but there could be any other way to lead a peaceful & fulfilling life & I think i have zoomed upon it.
I will not lead this kind of life, devoid of Life. I will settle in my City Sirsa. I will start an enterprise in which I will involve my life partner, thus leaving no room for her to get bored & make sure she will be with me always be it home or office. All this could be done without making life too busy. There will be parents to support us, we can share cooking, washing cloth & other daily chores between us (after all hostel ka gyan kahan kaam aayega ;)). Life will be heaven, aah. I will be using my Culinary skills, cloth washing skills, household chores management skills & money making skills too to impress my family (ha ha ha). There will be time to spend the money. In this way my life partner will also not be reducing her life to Choolah-Choka but shall make her life more fulfilling by availing the opportunity to apply her professional knowledge & skills.
I don't know, where my fantasies will stop but this dream life is definitely not a fantasy.
I mean it, I believe in it & I shall do my all out efforts to make this reality...or I will make it a reality.
This all made me think: Do I want such life??
Though money can not buy everything & at the same time It's easy to cry in a Mercedes than in a hut with open roof but everybody has to make a choice. These are the two extremes shared by lunatics on fb but there could be any other way to lead a peaceful & fulfilling life & I think i have zoomed upon it.
I will not lead this kind of life, devoid of Life. I will settle in my City Sirsa. I will start an enterprise in which I will involve my life partner, thus leaving no room for her to get bored & make sure she will be with me always be it home or office. All this could be done without making life too busy. There will be parents to support us, we can share cooking, washing cloth & other daily chores between us (after all hostel ka gyan kahan kaam aayega ;)). Life will be heaven, aah. I will be using my Culinary skills, cloth washing skills, household chores management skills & money making skills too to impress my family (ha ha ha). There will be time to spend the money. In this way my life partner will also not be reducing her life to Choolah-Choka but shall make her life more fulfilling by availing the opportunity to apply her professional knowledge & skills.
I don't know, where my fantasies will stop but this dream life is definitely not a fantasy.
I mean it, I believe in it & I shall do my all out efforts to make this reality...or I will make it a reality.
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